Celebrating Failure

I failed at making a relationship work with this girl I really liked. It started off great I met her in almost like a movie way it was crazy. I saw her sitting on a bench waiting for a bus and I commented her on her shoes. She smiled and laughed and that started the conversation. Turns out she lived in my same apartment complex. Whats even crazier is she lived in the apartment literally right next to mine on the third floor. It was insane. So I didn't know she was into me like that at first but I shot out the question just for the hell of it. I told asked her out for food and she agreed so we went to this Mexican place and had some fire ass tacos. They were great and the night went super well. We ended up going back to my place and listening to music a couple hours before she kissed me and went back to her place. We hung out a couple times after that and watched Netflix and I was really into this girl. But for some reason are txts kept getting shorter and shorter and finally I stopped txting her just to see what she did. She didn't txt back for a whole week so I tried one last time to hang out with her. She hit me with some long paragraph about how I was so nice and sweet but she just wasn't looking for anything right now and she was too busy. It felt phony to me and just didn't really add up. I felt like I did all the right stuff but I guess it just fell flat. But anyways what I learned from it is that, sometimes things are just meant to be a certain way. All we can do is learn from it and realize we can't have everything the way we want it all the time. You win some you lose some.